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  %SCRIPT CONTROL REALM POWER CORRUPTION ADDICT SIN 981129                                             
                                                                                                                               
     People who are preoccupied with issues of control are                                                           
often assertive,  self-confident,  and project a sense  of                                                      
reliable  authority.     People who do not understand  the                                                    
risks  of trusting people who are preoccupied with  issues                                                                    
of   control  ---   all too often trust  such  people   to                                                           
exercise power and authority within:                             
                                                                                                                               
     GANGS      CLUBS      CHURCHES      FAMILIES                                                                              
     TRIBES     CLANS      PARTIES       CITIES                           
     NATIONS    STATES     FELLOWSHIPS   BUSINESSES                                                                            
                                                                                                                               
     People  who  are preoccupied with issues  of  control                                                           
usually lead each other into disintegrative conflicts; not  
into integrative relationships.  They often undermine both  
personal and communal integrity --- while pretending to do                                                                
the reverse.                                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     In order to deal with disintegrative people it may be                                                                   
helpful for us to describe integrative relationships which                                                              
we have experienced,  envisioned,  hoped for, etc.    Such                                   
relationships  may  be  personal,   communal,   reflexive,     
objective,   spiritual,   etc.    To  provide   clarifying                                                        
contrasts   we   may  need  to   describe   disintegrative                 
relationships  as  well  ---   but  let  us  seek  to   be                                                              
integrative  in our discourse even so.   All RELATIONSHIPS                                                            
entail  at  least two realities about which we need  to be                 
clear---for   one   single  reality  cannot   meaningfully                                                                     
be related to itself.                                                      
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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