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   %TRANQUILITY PEACE SHALOM HEALTH INTEGRITY WHOLE+981115                                                          
 %COGNITIVE DISSONANCE CONTENTION CONFLICT COERCION 981115                
                                                                                                                               
     We cannot enjoy tranquility,  peace, shalom,  health,                                                                     
and  personal/communal  integrity so long  as  we maintain                                                                
within  ourselves  our  within  our  exclusive communities                       
---    dishonest   and/or  unrealistic  expectations    of                                                                  
ourselves and/or  of each  other.                                                            
                                                                                                                               
     When our standards  and  expectations  are  dishonest                                                            
and/or  unrealistic  ---  we are bound to  be  in  tension                                                                     
and/or  in  contention.   We then  need  to  cooperate  in                
finding    integrative   ways   to  work   toward   better      
communications,    open   and  honest   dialogue,   mutual                            
understandings,    conflict   resolution,     peacemaking,                                              
cooperation,   and the transcendence of differences  which                                     
divide,   fragment,   and disintegrate  our  personal  and                                                            
communal lives.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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