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  %CALCULATED DUTY DUTIFUL OBEDIENT BEHAVIOR DEADLY+981026                                                       
%SPONTANEOUS JOYFUL REAL LOVE MEANINGFUL FRIENDSHIP+981026                                           
%ALIENATIVE JUDGEMENTALISM PUNISHMENT CONTROL DEVIL+981026                                       
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     The meaning,  import, importance, and significance of                                                                     
a   behavior  depends  as  much  upon   the   motivations,                                                       
attitudes, expectations, fears, and attitudes which led to                                                                     
the  behavior  ---  as upon the objective elements of  the                                                       
behavior.                                                       
                                                                                                                               
     Behaviors   which  flow  in  calculative  ways   from      
legalistic commandments,  prescriptions,    proscriptions,                                                                     
formulas,   traditions,   expectations,   and  threats  of                                                                     
punishments ---  are likely to be joyless,  lifeless,  and                                                                     
deadly.                                                                                                                        
                                                                                                                               
     Behaviors  which flow spontaneously from  people  who                                                       
enjoy   security  known  as  the  freedom  to  be   safely                   
vulnerable  in  being  true to self and others  within  in                        
integrative  relationships and communities ---  are likely                                                              
to   be   joyful,   full  or  life,   and   occasions   of                                                                     
reconciliation and peacemaking.                                                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     People  who do not recognize the differences  between                                     
these   contrasting  styles  of behaviors  and   living---                                                       
are usually nearly dead,  dead,   and/or deadly serious in                                                                     
their  efforts  to  create  a systematic way of  appearing      
to    be   other    than  they really are ---   in   their                                                               
profound levels  of alienation and estrangement.                                        
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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