This is http://www.essayz.com/a9806151.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOUBLE BIND PRISON TRAP COLLUSION PRISON IDEAL SIN+980615 %IDEOLOGICAL VALUES PRINCIPLE EXCLUSIVE EXPERIENCE+980615 %ASSUMPTION PRINCIPLE PREJUDICES CONFUSION MEMORY+980615 %STUCK CAUGHT FIXATION FANATIC FUNDAMENTALIST SINS 980615 We may become trapped/imprisoned in ways which involve one or more of the following: 1. Exclusivity which dictates that essential liberating alternatives be given no real consideration --- demanding that the entrapping/imprisoning ideals, values, principles, assumptions, prejudices, memories and repressions remain dominant/governing. 2. Patterns of thought and feeling which ground all consideration in ancient ways, scriptures, traditions and patterns of thinking --- giving little if any emphasis upon current experiences, experimentation, discoveries, visions, dreams, hopes, imagination and revelations. 3. Fear of that which is unfamiliar, unknown, strange, different, changing, growing. 4. Trust in technological and/or technocratic: means, procedures, equipment, and thinking patterns. 5. Collusive games of mutual self-deception which validate themselves entirely in terms of considerations which are under the control of dishonest elements of the games. 6. Fear of criticisms offered by "different" people. 7. Dispositions to spend more time in talking and writing --- than in listening and reading. 8. Dispositions to specialize and/or focus upon increasingly narrow ranges of experiences, considerations and concerns. 9. The use of dishonesty and secrecy to hide errors, blunders and/or mistakes made --- making it impossible to learn from them. 10. A lack of a sense of humor and an inability to laugh at one's own foibles. To avoid getting stuck in life --- we need to become aware of the various ways in which we can get stuck, without knowing it. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================