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%HARMLESS BEHAVIOR OBJECTION DISINTEGRATION PRIVATE+980122                                                       
  %PERSONAL EMOTIONAL MATURITY HONEST OPEN DIALOGUE+980122                                                                 
%CONFUSE CLEAR ARTICULATION FREEDOM TALK SPEAK LOVE 980122                                           
                                                                                                                               
     It is difficult to articulate in a generally accepted         
way the  difference  between {truly harmless behaviors} to      
which (immature  people object)  and {truly disintegrative                                                        
behaviors} to which (few people object).                                                       
                                                                                                                               
     Often  (immature people object)  to  behaviors  which                                                       
they are not mature enough to recognize as {truly harmless                                                                     
behaviors} because the  behaviors  threaten  to expose  or                          
otherwise undermine their unjust collusive games of mutual                            
self  deception,  their immaturity.   They have no  honest 
just   reason  for  objecting  to  the   {truly   harmless                                                        
behaviors}. The only reasons  that they have for objection                                                       
are hidden in their own immaturity.   Such {truly harmless                   
behaviors} have included.                                                       
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Teaching that the earth turns on its axis.                                                                            
     2.  Teaching that the Earth goes around the sun.                                                                          
     3.  Describing the sun as having spots on it.                                                                             
     4.  Healing sick people on the Sabbath.                                                                    
     5.  Referring to God as one's own Father.                   
     6.  Socially associating with black people.                                                                    
     7.  Opposing the institution of slavery.                                                                                  
     8.  Opposing salvation for sale by the church.                                                                            
     9.  Opposing corrupt religious dictators.                                                                                 
                                                                                                                               
     On the other hand often people have not objected in a                                                        
timely way to behaviors which are truly disintegrative and      
{truly  harmful behaviors} which have  been  motivated  by                                                       
people  immersed  in  playing unjust  collusive  games  of                                                   
mutual self deception such as pretending that: 
                                                                                                                               
     1.  They are God-appointed to act as they do.                                                                             
     2.  They are defending eternal/absolute truths.                                                                           
     3.  All depends upon just one truth or commandment.                                                                       
     4.  Wisdom can be found in dichotomous demands.                                                                           
     5.  Dichotomous questions can lead to integrity.                                                                   
     6.  Excommunications can lead to communal integrity.                                                                
     7.  God calls for condemnations and alienations.                                        
     8.  Their institution is God-ordained and perfect.                                                                        
     9.  Nothing is impossible for them to achieve.                                                                            
                                                                                                                               
     It is difficult to articulate in a generally accepted         
way the  difference  between {truly harmless behaviors} to      
which   (immature   people   object)   ---    and   {truly                                                        
disintegrative  behaviors}  to which (few people  object).                                                       
The  difficulty  would be present even in the  absence  of                                                                     
collusive  games  of  mutual self  deception  because  the 
differences are:                                     
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Subtle and hard to articulate clearly.                                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Often  buried  in  suggested alienative  ways  of      
responding  to  non-conformists  ---  while the  focus  is            
unfairly upon the non-conformists --- rather than upon the            
alienative consequences of the suggested responses.                                  
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Not connected to real objective consequences.                                                        
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Engendered by fear, rather than by love.                                           
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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