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%LEGALISTS LACK DESCRIPTIONS HEALTHY SEX RELATION+970602
%CONTROL OTHERS AVOID EMBARRASSMENT VULNERABILITY+970602
%HOMOSEXUAL GAY COMMITMENT COVENANT LOYALTY SINS+970602
%MORAL SUPERIORITY SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS EVIL REJECT 970602
Legalists who have great interest in the sexual lives
of non-conformists are prone to try to engender and
control conflicts so the most attention will focused upon
dichotomous issues which can be reduced to responding
"yes" or "no" to questions which they can carefully
control.
Such legalists show no interest in trying to
helpfully describe healthy intimate relations and healthy
sexual relationships --- because doing so would make them
personally vulnerable and insecure; just as they have made
others personally vulnerable and insecure. Letting
themselves become vulnerable and insecure is against their
principles and ideals --- according to which they should
be securely in power and in control.
Legalists support exclusive moral codes which are
sold as promoting righteousness, personal integrity and
communal integrity. The price of accepting such moral
codes is honesty, personal integrity and communal
integrity --- for the codes promote preoccupations with
appearances, rather than with facilitating open and honest
dialogue through the exchange of free gifts of the freedom
to be safely vulnerable in intimate relationships.
Legalists lack personal integrity because they
pretend that their exclusive moral codes and the
enforcement of them will bear sweet fruit --- when history
is full of evidence to the contrary. Legalists do not
promote any kind of balance, because they do not want any
kind of balance.
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