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%FEEL VIOLATE VIOLENCE ALIENATE EXCOMMUNICATED EVIL+970321
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%COMMON GROUND SETTING PRIORITIES VOTE VOTING FOCUS 970321

     Often occasions occur where people of unequal  and/or
different  kinds of power are in conflict with each  other
and with those of "lesser"   power (in fact or in reality)
feel    violated      due    to    perceived     violence,
manipulations,  alienations,    excommunications  and   or
evil.     In  such situations  it  is  often difficult  to
determine    what    is  "real"    and  what  is   "merely
perception".     Accusations  are  likely   to   fly   and
conflict  made  worse  and/or  more pervasive.

     In  such  situations it is rarely  helpful  to  focus
primarily upon who  is "right",  "righteous", "justified",
"reasonable",   "saved",  "good",  "Godly",  or any  other
affirmation of "superior status".

     What is usually more helpful to do is to consider the
reality    of   alienation,    estrangement,     distrust,
misunderstanding,   confusion  and  ignorance---and  their
costs  to all who  are being affected by those  realities.
In  light  of  such considerations  it  may  become  clear
that   there   will be mutual  benefit to all involved  to
seek  to minimize  those costly  realities which are  real
to  the  victims.   Common ground can be found in  dealing
with the costs to all who are involved of those realities.

                                                                                                                               
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