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 %CONCEPTION VISION INTENTION EXPECT RELATION HUMAN+960324
    %ENGINEER DESIGN PLAN SYSTEM PROGRAM PLOT DRAMA 960324

     Different people anticipate,  view and review various
kinds of human relationships in different terms.   A human
relationship may be regarded as:

     1.  The fulfillment of some person's plan, design, or
intention;   as  an  accomplishment of someone who is  "in
charge".  The fulfillment of the plan may affirm the power
of the person who is "in charge" to be "in control."

     2.  The  fulfillment  of the participants'  rebellion
against the efforts of others to control them.

     3.  A means for  expressing anger and getting revenge
against some person or persons, living or dead.

     4.  A  demonstration  of  the  ability  of  humans to
creatively  invent many different ways of fulfilling their
creative potentials in non-conformal ways.

     5.  Guided  in  mysterious ways which transcend human
understanding  and   control---so  as  to  fulfill  divine
intentions.

     6.  Conforming  properly  to  rules  and  regulations
which constrain the participants to chose wisely how,  why
and when to do whatever it is that they ultimately do---as
a   celebration  of  the  propriety  of  the   rules   and
regulations which govern the relationship.

     7.  Celebrating  the  intentions  and desires  of the
parents  of  the participants in the relationship  and  so
bring honor and respect to the parents.

     8.  Serving   as  a  necessary  cement  between   the
"tribes"    of   the   participants---in   keeping    with
arrangements made by members of the "tribes"---in order to
advance the mutual advantages of the "tribes" according to
some plan.

     How  a relationship  evolves depends greatly upon the
context   within   which   it   evolves---upon   how   the
relationship  is regarded by the participants and by those
who   observe  and  respond  to  the  evolution   of   the
relationship.    There are bound to be difficulties if the
participants  and  the spectators regard the  relationship
and its evolution in ways which are inconsistent with each
other---generating    conflicting   interests,    desires,
expectations, demands and intentions.   Then relationships
are likely to become violent and destructive;  rather than
healthy  avenues  for  the  development  of  personal  and
communal integrity.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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