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  %GUILT SHAME DISINTEGRATE PERVERSE WORTHY RESPECT+950813
 %VULNERABLE MANIPULATE CONTROL ABUSE DECEPTION WAY+950813
  %VIOLENCE CREATIVE CONVENTIONAL CONFORM DIFFERENT+950813
      %DEPERSONALIZE RIDICULE ALIENATE OBJECT POWER 950813

     Guilt and shame are disintegrative,  perverse and not
worthy of respect when they have been, are, or may soon be
generated:

     1.  In   order   to   make   people   vulnerable   to
manipulation, control and/or abuse by others.

     2.  Through  deceptive,  dishonest  and/or  secretive
ways.

     3.  To  do violence to the distinctive integrities of
creative, unconventional and/or "different" people(s).

     4.  As  part  of   a   program  of depersonalization,
ridicule,  alienation,  dis-empowerment,  dis-couragement,
dis-integration, etc.

     We  cannot  be  well  and  do  well,   if  we   avoid
recognizing the above realities,  do not name them, do not
describe them,  and do not talk about them---when they are
pervasively present in our daily lives.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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