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  %HEAVEN REFLEXIVE CONTEXT RELATION OBJECTIVE TIME+950615
  %TRUE SELF OTHER HONEST BEING GOD FAMILY CHILDREN 950615

     Heaven  is a reflexive context for integrative  human
relationships.

     Heaven  is  not an objective time and/or place  which
can be described,  captured or manipulated through the use
of objective statements upon  which  people  agree through
convergent and/or conformal behaviors.

     Heaven  is  a reflexive context within  which  people
enjoy  being  true to themselves and each other;   because
they are free to let go of their compulsive preoccupations
with  issues  pertaining to:  evil, management,   control,
perfection,  conformity,  rules, sin,  regulations,  laws,
prohibitions, injunctions,  taboos, alienations, defenses,
judgementalism,   condemnations, rejections, excommunicat-
ions, banishments, coercion, violence, threats, terrorism,
and war.

     Heaven is not a place which is locked from the inside
to keep unqualified people out.   Hell is a place which is
locked from inside to keep honest people out.

     Heaven  is  a reflexive context within  which  people
enjoy  being true to themselves and each  other---in  open
and   honest  relationships  entailing  the   sharing   of
congruent   and  mutually  enhancing  reflexive   desires,
feelings and emotions.

     Within   the   heavenly   context   people    respond
reflexively, openly and honestly to each other's desires.

     Within  the  heavenly  context people  do  not  react
defensively  to  each other in objective ways designed  to
try   to  minimize  vulnerability   and   insecurity---for
objective reactions cannot control reflexive realities.

     Within  the  heavenly context people enjoy  open  and
honest  responses  to each other's desires,  feelings  and
emotions---for they are not treats to each other.

     Within the heavenly context people share gifts of the
freedom  to  be  safely  vulnerable  in  open  and  honest
reflexive  relationships---relationships  which  cannot be
truly  described  through the disciplined use of objective
tools,  procedures and languages;  for such tools are ill-
suited to describing reflexive realities.

     Heaven is not like a bank into which someone may push
their  way  to get what is of value there  for  their  own
personal use.

     Heaven  is  not  like an amusement  park  into  which
someone may push to get the enjoyment to be found there.

     Heaven  is  not an exclusive club into which one  may
slip with vestments which make one look like one  belongs;
so that one will be accepted there as a respected member.

     Heaven  is not like the home of an  addictive  parent
who seeks to control all that takes place therein.

     Heaven is not like a profitable corporation which  is
managed for the benefit of absent stock-holders.

     Heaven  is  not  a  safe  haven  where  there  is  no
insecurity  or  risk  because the defenses are  more  than
adequate and effective.

     Heaven  is  not  a place which is taken  care  of  by
others for the benefits of a select few.

     Heaven is built up by people who enjoy being together
with each other in reflexive relationships which are open,
honest,   and  integrative  of  diverse people  and  their
diverse communities.

     Heaven  may be disintegrated by objective people  who
seek  devious  defensive ways to achieve security at  each
other's expense with minimal risk to themselves.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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