This is http://www.essayz.com/a9503021.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COLLUSION ADDICTION FIXATION FREE HONEST REPORTS+950302 %OPEN SECURE DEFENSIVE MISLEADING DISHONEST TALK 950302 To enjoy the fruits of wise decisions and actions which are based on reliable information---we need to earnestly seek addiction-free and collusion-free personal reports of people's own personal experiences. Open and honest reports of personal experiences are unlikely to be offered within the contexts of communities and relationships which are dominated by: addicts, addictions, collusions, colluders and their codependent supporters. People who are preoccupied with disciplines, controls, perfection and conformity with theories and injunctions---are unlikely to share with anybody free gifts of the freedom to be safely vulnerable in open and honest intimate personal relationships---and so they are unlikely to be reliably informed or earnestly seeking addiction-free and/or collusion-free personal reports of people's own personal experiences. They are unlikely to enjoy the fruits of wise decisions and actions; or to allow others to enjoy the fruits of wise decisions and actions. There are people who claim that they are the recipients of super-natural and/or super-human revelations of truths and commandments which are NOT GROUNDED in open and honest collusion-free and addiction-free reports of personal experiences of humans involved in human relationships which are not coercive, not violent and not manipulative. We will do well to be skeptical of such reports of revelations if they are inconsistent with reports which ARE GROUNDED in open and honest collusion- free and addiction-free reports of personal experiences of humans involved in human relationships which are not- coercive, not-violent and not-manipulative. Revelations which lead to coercive, violent and manipulative human relationships and experiences---need to be described openly and honestly in terms of their fruits. Claims which are made for their transcendent nature need to be assessed in terms of open and honest descriptions of what the revelations and those who take them seriously lead to in human affairs, judgments, condemnations, excommunications and alienations. The above considerations are also relevant to the selection and interpretation of traditionally respected collections of scriptures. The meanings found therein depend greatly upon what scriptures are selected for special attention, what scriptures are mostly ignored and upon what assumptions and upon what attitudes guide the interpretations of those scriptures chosen for special attention. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================