This is http://www.essayz.com/a9406281.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FEARFUL ALIENATIVE JUDGMENTAL CONDEMN REJECTIVE+940628 %MERIT UNQUALIFIED RESPECT ADMIRATION TRUST OBEY 940628 Fearful people who are prone/inclined to condemn, reject and/or alienate us and others do not merit our unqualified respect, admiration, trust or obedience. We need to work to transcend their fearful nature and to transcend our fear of them. The more we respect, admire, trust and/or obey them, the more we are prone/inclined to fear them and their condemnations, rejections and/or alienations. It is not easy to transcend the fearful natures of our dysfunctional parents, lovers, spouses, employers, officers, officials, teachers, professors, professionals, religious leaders and political leaders. The more dependent we are upon them for our basic needs, the more likely we are to fear them and be their victims. The more we respect, admire, trust and/or obey them, the more prone/inclined we are to be dependent upon them emotionally and cognitively. We need to learn to change what we can change in our own minds, attitudes, being, and doing; and learn to live graciously with what we cannot change. Only then can we and our organizations and communities transcend our fearful natures and organizational structures. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================