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 %TRAGIC EVENTS TRENDS PEOPLE RELATIONSHIPS CONTROL+940511
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    Tragic events, trends,  people, and relationships make
evident that integrative changes and growth are in  order;
but   there  is  rarely  consensus  among  all   who   are
participants and/or  victims  as to  just  what  kinds  of
changes and growth will be  kind  to all who are involved.
Different  people  will most  likely conceive (and perhaps
realize)  the  tragic events  in different  ways,  and  so
perceive them in different ways.

    Do  tragic events,  trends,  people, and relationships
make clear  that attention and effort needs to be  focused
upon more, less, and/or different:

    ASSUMPTIONS           ATTITUDES         VALUES
    IDEALS                GOALS             BELIEFS
    CONTROLS              PUNISHMENTS       LAWS
    RULES                 REGULATIONS       PROHIBITIONS
    PRESCRIPTIONS         FORMULA           FORMULATIONS
    TRUTHS                DECEPTIONS        COLLUSIONS
    ADDICTIONS            CODEPENDENCIES    GAMES
    COMPETITIONS          COERCIONS         PRISONS
    CONFUSIONS            IGNORANCE         REPRESSIONS
    SUPPRESSIONS          TYRANTS           ADDICTS
    ADMINISTRATORS        LEADERS           RELIGIONS
    DOCTRINES             RITUALS           TEACHINGS
    SCRIPTURES            INJUSTICES        FAILURES
    IMPERFECTIONS         MISTAKES          INTIMACIES
    SENSATIONS            EMOTIONS          AFFECTIONS
    TABOOS                SEXUALITIES       STYLES
    CLOTHING              HOUSING           FOOD
    MEDICINE              PRAYERS           TEACHING
    RESEARCH              SCIENCE           TECHNOLOGY
    POWER                 HUMILITY          SPIRIT
    BODY                  OBJECTS           RELATIONSHIPS

    Different  people  are  different in  how  they  focus
attention  and energy upon different combinations  of  the
above    realities---with   tragic   and/or    integrative
consequences.     We  need to seek clarity  regarding  how
decisions  and  actions  are connected  to  tragedies  and
integration.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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