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%UNRESOLVED CONFLICT REASON DOMINATE LEAD GUIDE SEX 930920

     Much  of our conflict within and among us pertains to
the questions of:

     1.  Should our reason be in charge of,  dominate, and
control our sexual expressions---by reason of superiority?

     2.  Should our reason guide,  lead and encourage  our
sexual expressions---facilitating truly secure behaviors?

     3.  Should our reason surrender to,  be dominated by,
and be controlled by our sexual expressions?

     4.  Should we  pass judgements upon, and condemn each
other and alienated  ourselves  from each other because of
our differences as regards sexual motivations,  fantasies,
desires and behaviors?

     5.  What  is  possible  and  what  is  impossible  as
regards  healthy and integrative expressions of  sexuality
among  mutually  consenting competent  adults  of  roughly
equal power?

     6.  What  should  be  the  roles   of   commandments,
injunctions, prohibitions,  descriptions and guidelines in
regards  to sexual motivations,  fantasies,   desires  and
behaviors?

     7.  What  is the nature of evil in regards to  sexual
relationships?

     8.  What   are  the  essential  aspects   of   sexual
relationships which are healthy, integrative and worthy of
respect, support and encouragement?

     9.  According  to  what essential principles  may  we
best resolve our conflicts regarding our sexuality?

     10.  What  are  the  most  integrative  roles   which
objectivity  and reflexivity can play in our resolution of
our conflicts regarding our sexuality?

     There is much to think about and share as we consider
the above questions.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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