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 %REFLEXIVE MEDITATE PRAYER ZEN RELIGION RELAX SAFE+930523
%JACK JILL DECISION ACTION DOMINATED DISINTEGRATIVE 930523

     To  the  extent  that Jack and Jill's  decisions  and
actions are dominated by what  is pointed to by  the words
following  in the first list below---to the  exclusion  of
open  and  honest  thoughtful  consideration  of  what  is
pointed  to  by the words following  in  the  second  list
below---to  that extent the dominance is disintegrative of
Jack's  and  Jill's  personal,   relational  and  communal
integrities. Such dominance is evil.

                   First List

     conspiracies     repressions         illusions
     collusions       addictions          codependencies
     taboos           prohibitions        injunctions
     punishments      rewards             requirements
     laws             codes               fears
     rejections       excommunications    disfellowship
     threats          violence            manipulations
     coercions        controls            disciplines
     defenses         attacks             terrorism

                   Second List

     honesty             openness         intimacy
     trust               hope             integrity
     vulnerability       safety           acceptance
     affection           truth            security

     Jack  and Jill need not be a male and  female  couple
for the above to be true. Jack's and Jill's identities may
be  associated  with  any  combination  of  physiological,
psychological,    or other identities  as  regards sex and
gender;  and the above  be true. It is dangerous to assume
otherwise.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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