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  %PASSIVE ABUSE CHILD OBJECT FOCUS REPRESS EMOTION+930513
%DESCRIBE EXPERIENCE TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIPS ADDICT 930513

     Within an addictive family,  community, business,  or
organization  it  is often risky and unsafe to openly  and
honestly  describe  personal experiences of true love  and
its  pleasures---because  such  personal  experiences  are
likely   to  undermine  the  dominant  game  plan  of  the
collusive  games of mutual self deception of the  dominant
addicts and their codependent supporters. Such experiences
are taboo, not to be talked about, not to be acknowledged,
not  to  be studied by scholars,  not  to  be  openly  and
honestly written about in  the  first  person singular  in
reflexive reports.

     It  serves the purposes of collusions and addicts  to
limit   descriptions   of   personal   relationships    to
objectified analyses making use of measurements,  numbers,
statistics and measures of the reliability of a consensus.
Such limited objective descriptions automatically repress,
hide and make  secret  those  aspects  of intimate healthy
relationships  which are prone to undermine the  collusive
game  plan.   The dangerously honest reflexive aspects  of
healthy  intimate relationships are filtered  out  by  the
objective processing.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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