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     Collusive paradigms surround themselves with  snares,
traps  and  webs by which to trap individuals and  couples
who dare to try to escape the limitations of the paradigm.
The  boundary between being inside the paradigm and  being
outside  the paradigm is defined by the  snares which  are
installed along the border.  Often the  snares are tripped
by would-be-escapees who  tell  imprudent truths which are
taboo within the paradigm; or who perceive reality in ways
which are contradictory to  the unquestionable "truths" of
the paradigm.

     Secure  communities  surround themselves with  safety
nets  by  which to protect people at the  borders  of  the
communities,   people   who are engaged in risky  transits
across the borders.  Members of secure communities seek to
offer gifts of security  to people who are coming into the
community and people who are traveling  across the boarder
on their way out of the community.  Secure communities are
not  defensive about their truths because their truths are
not false fabrications.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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