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 %PERVERSE WISE REGULATE RESPONSE HEALTH BLOCK LOVE 921122

     The  difference  between   perverse  regulations  and
wise guidance  often  lies  in the nature of the  personal
and communal responses which they elicit.

     Perverse regulations often elicit resentful reactions
which  flow   from   the  presence  of:     manipulations,
coercions,  dishonesty,  pretense,  violence,   injustice,
collusions,  judgmentalism, excommunications, and the lack
of:  personal dialogue,   balance,   mutuality,  openness,
flexibility, and adaptability.

     Wise guidance  usually  elicits integrative responses
which  flow   from   the  absence   of:     manipulations,
coercions,  dishonesty,  pretense,  violence,   injustice,
collusions,  judgmentalism,    excommunication,    and the
presence     of:    personal     dialogue,        balance,
mutuality,    openness, flexibility, and adaptability.

     Perverse regulations generate double binds,   blocks,
hang-ups,    paralysis,    diseases,    sicknesses,    and
disintegration within persons and communities.

     Wise  guidance   leads  to  liberation,    lifting of
burdens,   relaxation,   recovery of  mobility,    shalom,
health,   and integration within persons and communities.

     The  difference  between   perverse  regulations  and
wise guidance  often  lies  in the nature of the  personal
and  communal responses which they elicit.   We  can  know
them by their fruits.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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