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 %REASONABLE ASSUME MUTUAL RELATE SATISFY SELF KNOW 920930

     It is not reasonable to assume that (and to behave as
if)  it should be possible for two people to relate to and
connect  with  each other's lives IN  MUTUALLY  SATISFYING
WAYS WITHOUT THEM INTIMATELY KNOWING AND SHARING THEIR OWN
AND EACH OTHER'S:  desires,   fears,  hopes,  aspirations,
anxieties,  joys,  pleasures,  etc.  Yet such is often the
case  for  persons  imprisoned  in  societies  which   are
DOMINATED BY  COLLUSIVE ADDICTIONS  AND  CODEPENDENCIES---
with all their dishonest conformal  patterns of attitudes,
assumptions and behaviors.

     Collusions  demand  ignorance of truths  which  might
expose  the dishonesties which are the foundations of  the
collusions.   Collusions are woven into  their  "coherent"
forms through the apparent strength of their threads which
are  lies.  Thus true self-knowledge and true knowledge of
each other cannot be permitted by collusive societies.  In
collusive  societies  it seems reasonable to  assume  that
(and to behave as if)  two people SHOULD BE ABLE TO relate
to  and  connect  with  each  other's  lives  IN  MUTUALLY
SATISFYING WAYS  WITHOUT  THEM  INTIMATELY  KNOWING AND/OR
SHARING THEIR OWN AND EACH OTHER'S: desires, fears, hopes,
aspirations,   anxieties,   joys,  pleasures,  etc.   Such
nonsense often comes to be regarded  as  GOSPEL  TRUTH and
plays  central  roles in religious  teachings,   lives and
experiences!    The   inevitable  consequences   are   the
disintegration  of  honest  connections within  and  among
people.  The trapped victims of the collusive prisons fail
to recognize the evil nature of the consequences or of the
causes. Only the collusions thrive.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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