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 %COLLUSIVE ADDICTIVE INTERNAL TENSION DISEASE SICK 911213

     Participant/victims  in/of collusive games of  mutual
self  deception embody internalized conflicts between  the
truth  and their pretensions,  and so have tensions  which
undermine their integrity, health, and being themselves.

     It  is wearing to be constantly alert to protect  the
appearance  of  integrity when it is not  real  integrity.
Pretension  involves  tension  before  the  pre-tension is
discovered.   Pre-tension comes from pretension which  may
be  discovered.    Constant  tension  undermines   health,
wholeness, integrity.

     Participants  in  collusive  games  of  mutual   self
deception   like  addicts  and   codependents   experience
constant threats to health, wholeness and integrity.  They
are constantly sick in one way or another; psychologically
and  relationally,  even if not obviously sick in physical
ways.     Constant   dishonest   makes  people   who   are
participants  and/or  victims of it sick because they  are
constantly pre-tensed because of their pretensions.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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