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%TABOO CONFLICT TOPIC VIOLENCE COLLUSION TRUTH HIDE 911004

     Much conflict and violence continues unabated because
collusions  operate  to hide truths about their  games  of
mutual  self  deception which maintain the  conflicts  and
associated violence.  The maintenance of the conflicts and
violence  is  essential  to  keeping  the  nature  of  the
collusive games of mutual self deception hidden.

     To resolve conflicts and reduce incidents of violence
we  must  deal openly and honestly with the nature of  the
conflicting ideals,  values, principles,  and goals of the
people  who  are in conflict  and  violent  relationships.
However,  dealing openly and honestly with such  realities
will   inevitably   expose   to  the   light   of   honest
conversations  just  how collusions operate  to  hide  the
horrible  truth  about the consequences of  the  continued
existence of the collusions.  Thus the maintenance of  the
conflicts  and violence is essential to keeping hidden the
nature of the collusive games of mutual self deception.

     To  resolve conflicts and to reduce violence we  must
find  ways to create secure contexts within which  we  and
our  enemies  can be honestly vulnerable in  conversations
about  our  conflicting ideals,  values,   principles  and
goals.   Such honest will expose our respective  collusive
games  of  mutual self deception which constantly work  to
maintain  our  conflicts and violence  as  screens  behind
which to hide our dishonesties.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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