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 %VIRGIN NAIVE IGNORANCE PERFECT UNABUSED PURE LOVE 910527

     The young virgin who through conspiracy and collusion
is  kept  ignorant and naive regarding  the  dynamics  and
perversions  of human intimacy is thereby made  vulnerable
to  people  who  do not with true love give  the  gift  of
security within which it is save to be vulnerable.

     Naivete and  ignorance are not means to security  and
meaningfully  true  intimate relationships.   Naivete  and
ignorance   lead   to   unbalanced   power   in   intimate
relationships.    The naive and ignorant are vulnerable to
use  and  abuse.    Perhaps  this is  why  male  dominated
societies  value virginity in females but do  not  equally
value  virginity  in  males.   An  unbalanced  concept  of
virginity  is  dishonest and undermines the  integrity  of
intimate relationships.

     To enjoy integrity in intimate relationships  honesty
must  be valued highly.   When honesty is highly valued it
is  not possible to highly value naivete and ignorance  in
either males or females.   The integrity of a community is
threatened when through conspiracy,  collusion,  addiction
and/or  codependence  young  people  are  kept  naive  and
ignorant  regarding  the  dynamics  of  intimate  personal
relationships and the perversions of such relationships.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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