This is http://www.essayz.com/a9105102.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FOCAL VOCABULARY WORD CONCEPT QUESTION ASSUMPTION 910510 The way we respond to a dilemma depends greatly upon the focus with which we approach the dilemma; vocabulary words, concepts, questions, assumptions and attitudes which are the implicit focus of our attention in the presence of the dilemma. We are lead by our focus as much as by the details of the dilemma. We may be lead by long standing traditions, by role models, by rules and regulations, by rituals, by addictive patterns, and by collusive games of mutual self deception. We will do well before we begin responding to a dilemma, to consider how our approach to the dilemma may make it impossible for us to be creative and honest in our response to the dilemma. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================