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         %EXEMPLARY INTEGRATIVE FEELINGS & THOUGHTS 860201

     Our  primary,  most important,  lessons  are  learned
through  exemplary  integrative feelings,  perceptions and
thoughts  revealed  to us by people whom  we  depend  upon
and/or respect.

     Living examples teach more powerfully than preaching.

     We respect integrative behavior more than we  respect
disintegrative behavior.

     We   respect  people  who  have  their  feelings  and
thoughts together, integrated, more than we respect people
whose thoughts and feelings are internally at war,  and so
lead others to be at war with each other.

     We are not as helpfully influenced by people who keep
to themselves, as by those who reveal  their  feelings and
thoughts to us.

     We  are  more influenced in positive ways  by  people
upon whom we can and do depend for support, than by people
on whom we can not depend or who drag us down by parasitic
dependence  upon  us---in  ways which  do violence to  our
personal and communal integrity.

     People  who have power over us without  demonstrating
both  personal  and  communal integrity do not elicit  our
respect,  and so do not  teach  us in any positive way any
important lessons.
                                                                                                                               
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