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%REPRESSION OF GIVING RECEIVING 851220
Due to collusions against emotions there are taboos
against giving and receiving emotional gifts. That which
must not be acknowledged as being real can not be a real
gift which is openly given and received with
acknowledgement. Thus no desire may be expressed as
regarding the hope for receipt of such taboo gift, and so
the desire may be expressed as regarding the hope for
receipt of such a taboo gift, and so the desire to give
such a taboo gift can not be elicited by the
acknowledgment of the desire to receive it. Both the
desires to receive and the desires to give being inhibited
further inhibit their complementary desires by absence---
thus fulfilling the taboo but not the people who are in
need of sharing reciprocal/reflexive desires and gifts.
What ideals, goals, principles occasion collusions
against emotions?
Some people believe that by repressing emotions they
can transcend bias. They believe that objectively
ignoring emotions and failing to acknowledge emotions
somehow frees them of the biases present when emotions are
dealt with openly and honestly. These beliefs are
probably motivated by fears occasioned by childhood
emotional needs which were not acknowledged or met and
perverted responses to the perverted situations which
occasioned the failure to meet those needs. In a tragic
feed-back loop the perversions perpetuate themselves with
self-justification by people seeking to justify themselves
for being emotionally immature.
To transcend bias the nature of bias must be
recognized. Bias has to do with exclusivity, favoritism,
repression, lack of balance. Unbalanced approaches to
situations in which are characterized by favored treatment
of some concerns to the exclusion and repression of
complementary concerns are inherently biased and promote
the growth of biased behavior, undermine emotional health
and generate tragic feed-back loops the motivation for
further such unbalanced approaches.
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