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                  %COERCIVE PERVERTED SYMPATHY FEAR 800018

     Jack inhibits Jill because he sympathizes with her---
and  fears  that her behavior will lead  him  to  be  hurt
through  sympathy.    Jack feels as if he were  Jill,   in
Jill's  doing  of things,   which Jack would  fear  to  do
himself.    Jack feels with Jill so fully that he can  not
bear for her to do that which he himself fears to do. Thus
Jack inhibits Jill because of his sympathetic nature.  His
sympathy  combined  with  his  fear---leads  to  perverted
behavior  which  violates Jill without due  cause  or  due
process.   Jack has not even shown that what Jill does, or
wants to do, is in any way dangerous; he merely fears that
it  is.    Much less has he shown that he is in  any  real
danger  of  being hurt by Jill's behavior;  he  is  merely
emotionally ill-at-ease due  to his perverted sympathy and
fear.   Jack's sympathy and fear are misguided;  they have
not been intentionally trained to work with integrity  and
mutuality.    Most intellectuals  are not  concerned  with
emotions in any wise way.

                                                                                                                               
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