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%JACK SEX AFFIRM FAITHFUL INTIMATE COMMUNICATE 790615
Jill waited many years before she met Jack. She
waited until the right one came along. She was not sure
that Jack was the right one at first. But now she is very
sure that Jack was the intended right one. She could not
live with herself if she even entertained the hypothesis
that she did not marry the right one, so she and Jack have
created a collusion with each other and their relatives
that they were meant exclusively for each other. Their
relationship is an affirmation of the goodness of the
waiting process and the correctness of the recognition of
each other as the right one who came along. Since so many
years were invested in the waiting---the commitment to the
goodness of the fruits of the waiting is very intense.
Jill saved herself for Jack. She was tempted to
affirm herself earlier, but deferred such self-affirmation
until Jack came along. Now she is affirmed by Jack and
Jack is affirmed by her. Neither is anybody without the
other, they are one. They go everywhere together. They
share the same name, activities, identity, friends, bed,
etc. They are with each other in all and all. They are
dependent upon each other at very profound levels, and
dependent upon their relationship to define who they are.
Outside what each other defines them to be, and outside
what their relationship defines them to be, they are
nobody. If either of them dies the other will be nobody
and will be lost.
Jack and Jill are threatened by couples that do not
wait until the right one comes along and engage in
intimate relationships on a tentative basis, or make
permanent commitments as if the right one had come
along---and then decide it was not the right one.
Watching such behavior threatens Jack and Jill's collusion
and so they punish those who do not wait or decide they
did not marry the right one. They excommunicate such
people who are unfaithful to the collusion which is their
source of meaning and fulfillment in intimate
relationships. Jack and Jill are dependent upon each
other, their relationships, and their collusion---and
attack anybody or power that threatens their dependency.
Their meaning is dependent upon their dependency, and they
work to preserve their wonderful dependency.
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