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                  %REALIZATION SEXUAL COMMUNICATION 790114

     We realize (make real,  come to be aware of)  what is
real to a large extent through communication,  through our
use  of language.   Thus reality is for us limited by  the
limitations of our languages and our freedoms to use them.
Our  languages may be limited in vocabulary by  having  no
way  to  make reference to some realities which  we  might
realize  if we could refer to them.   Our languages may be
limited  by confusing realities,  referring  to  different
realities as if they were the same.   Our languages may be
limited  in  structure,   lacking  diversity  of  ways  of
indicating relationships. We may be limited by our lack of
commonality   with   regard   to   communication.      Our
realizations may be limited by inhibitions of our freedoms
to associate in public and/or  private,  to speak,  write,
publish, petition, and in other ways to reveal our selves,
desires,    instincts,  intuitions,  insights,   emotions,
opinions, affections, etc.

     Realization  through sexual communication is  limited
by  our  lack  of language with which to share our  sexual
knowledge,  desires,  experiences, emotions,  etc.   It is
difficult  to share our awareness and creations  of sexual
reality  if we can not meaningfully refer to them  through
language of some form.   Our language may not be suited to
make  reference  to  meaningful sexual relationships.  Our
verbal  languages  tend  to  be  focused  about  objective
realities,  and are of limited use in making references to
subjective: realities, emotions, desires, feelings, fears,
sensations, etc.   Our  verbal languages are structured to
deal with cause &  effect relationships in time and space,
and so are of limited  use  in making references to sexual
relationships  in the eternal now of  relationships  which
can  not be understood meaningfully in terms of causes and
effects.

     If we are unable (through lack or inhibition)  to use
language to share our personal  sexual  knowledge,  we are
unable to realize our sexual potentials,  for we must then
each  individually  come to  know  what  might  have  been
shared.    Through lack of communication we tend  to  make
more  mistakes and cause more suffering than need be.   We
will  do well to expand the capabilities of our  languages
and  our  freedom  to  use our languages  to  fulfill  the
promptings of Love.  God is Love.

                                                                                                                               
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