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     Bullies  are insecure people who seek  to  compensate
for their insecurity by pushing others around: physically,
psychologically,   economically,   socially,  politically,
sexually, morally, ethically, religiously, intellectually,
etc.  The domains of the activities of bullies are varied.
Many  bullies  whose domains  are  not  physical  are  not
recognized as bullies.  It will be helpful to become aware
of  the common  aspects  of  the behavior  of  bullies  of
various domains  of activity---because there are likely to
be some common factors in the most  helpful  ways  to cope
with the various types of bullies.  The common factors are
likely  to relate to  the common motivation of bullies and
their common tendency to push others around.

     There  are  varied means which are used  by  bullies:
Personal physical contact,  personal threats,  verbal oral
statements,    verbal  written   statements,    non-verbal
statements,  posturing,  eye-contact,  facial expressions,
body motions,  positioning,  etc.   Bullies do not  accept
relationships of mutual vulnerability, and in general find
it   difficult   to   enter   into   mutually   satisfying
relationships.     Bullies  seek  to  satisfy  their   own
perceived needs by how they push other people around. They
anticipate finding  fulfillment in  pushing people around.
The frustration occasioned by their expectations not being
fulfilled  tends  to  aggravate  their  futile efforts  to
achieve fulfillment through bullying.  They tend to become
more competitive and determined to  achieve their  goal by
pushing other people around in one way or another.

     When  granted  adequate political and economic  power
bullies  engage in international war and threats  of  war.
They  try to push nations around by threats of the use  of
military  and/or  economic  weapons.    The  international
leaders  who occasion such efforts use  the  international
scene  as  a  means to achieving their personal  goals  of
fulfillment  through  bullying.   They seek  security  for
themselves   as  individuals  and  for  their  nations  as
corporate  bodies by means of techniques designed to  push
people  around.    As  bullies  they  tend  to   intensify
insecurity.
                                                                                                                               
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