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 %DOMINEERING BULLIES UNHEALTHY INHIBITION INTIMACY 080714
  %VIOLENT VIOLATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITIES 080714
 %NONVIOLENT MITIGATIONS CONFLICTS WITH TRUE LOVERS 080714

There  are  always  real  risks entailed  in  engaging  in
intimate  personal relationships;  e.g.,   disappointments
relative to expectations.    If we are well informed about
such risks and work to keep the dangers of suffering those
risks   minimized;   we  do  not  need  the  services   of
Domineering-Bullies   to  avoid  serious  losses  in   our
personal  and  communal integrities.   We  can  adequately
prepare   to deal with such realities without the help  of
Domineering-Bullies!

Domineering-Bullies  are  likely,  however,   to  seek  to
inhibit  intimate  personal  relationships  in  order   to
augment their own power to control us and to augment their
wealth  in keeping with their Overall-Life-Styles.    They
are likely to behave in Alienative-Ways which will lead us
to   become   Programmed  to  Inhibit-Ourselves  and   our
Intimate-Relationships ---  to protect Domineering-Bullies
from  suffering  embarrassments and loses in  their  self-
esteem.     To  maintain  our  real  personal-and-communal
integrations-and-integrities  ---   we  need  to  MITIGATE
Domineering-Bullies'  Unhealthy-Efforts  to Program us  to
Inhibit-Ourselves    and   our   own   Authentic-Intimate-
Relationships  which  are  Truly-Healthy.     Domineering-
Bullies  efforts  are Violent-Efforts when  they  seek  to
Violate-our-Integrity in ways that merit no respect, honor
or support.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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