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  %CONTRASTS GROUPS TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING BULLIES 080711
%ASPECTS VICES VIRTUES VISIONS PERSPECTIVES ELEMENT 080711
 %DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATIONS CONFLICTS 080711

The following texts deal with contrasts between groups  of
True-Lovers as compared with Domineering-Bullies;  who are
focused,    in  Contrasting-Diverse-Ways,   upon   various
people's:

(1) Realities,
(2) Dichotomies,      (3) Polarizations, (4) Spectrums,
(5) Relationships which in nature are;
    (a) Objective,    (d) Spiritual,     (g) Friendly,
    (b) Reflexive,    (e) Neighborly,    (h) Intimate,
    (c) Subjective,   (f) Economic,      (i) Sexual, etc.
(6) Spectrums,        (7) Combinations,  (8) Permutations,
(9) Processes,       (10) Transitions,  (11) Stuck-Ways.

Usually True-Lovers are willing, able, and ready to:

(1) Become informed in unbiased ways.
(2) Admit and Learn from mistakes, blunders and tragedies.
(3) Honestly-Describe their Experiences/Perceptions.
(4) Be engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogue Along-the-Way.
(5) Demonstrate Hospitality, Generosity and Intimacies.
(6) Articulate-&-Demonstrate Helpful Clusters-of-Virtues.
(7) ALL-Focus on Mitigating Tragically-Alienative-Vices.
(8) ALL-Focus on Mitigating all forms of Alienation.
(9) Transcend Alienative-Dichotomies-and-Polarizations.
(10) Transcend Being-Stuck in Idolatrous-Traps/Prisons.

Usually Domineering-Bullies Avoid-the-Above-Behaviors.

We need to learn from their contrasting outcomes/fruits.

     We need to be in dialogue about all of the above.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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