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  %FACILITATE GRADUAL ESSENTIAL TRANSITIONS BETWEEN 080702
%PAST PRESENT DOMINEERING BULLIES ALIENATIVE ACTION 080702
%BEHAVIORS AGAINST AUTHENTIC TRUE LOVERS SHALOM GOD 080702

The  past and current presence of  Domineering-Bullies  in
our communities make it difficult  to  describe what would
constitute honorable and dishonorable behaviors --- in the
absence of their past and present influences.   We need to
ask:  What behaviors are  NOT  honorable  ONLY  BECAUSE of
Domineering-Bullies'  past and present influence ---   yet
could  be  honorable  in the future ---  in the absence of
Domineering-Bullies'   presence?    Now  many  integrative
behaviors of Authentic-True-Lovers are  not  honorable  in
the eyes of Domineering-Bullies --- because such behaviors
threaten Bullies' Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception
---   which are essential to the Privileged life-styles of
Domineering-Bullies.

The above suggests that we need to move through TRANSITION
years when Domineering-Bullies will gradually cease to  be
influential  due  to past and current  behaviors.   Future
Personal-and-Communal integrities will not come into being
instantly ---   but  can  come  into being through gradual
TRANSITIONS.

We  need  to give careful and extended thought to  how  to
help  such  TRANSITIONS to move  through  their  essential
stages.     It  is dangerous to hope,  expect or think  in
terms  of INSTANTANEOUS-SHIFTS from living in  communities
that   are   strongly  influenced  by  past  and   present
Alienative-Behaviors of Domineering-Bullies; including the
honoring  of  Domineering-Bullies  for  their   "Faithful-
Service"  in VIOLENT:  contests, battles,  wars,  terrors,
etc.    The same goes for occasions of Domineering-Bullies
serving faithfully in PROFITABLE:  colonizations,   slave-
trade,  working-slaves,   segregations,  concentrating-of-
wealth, sexual-abuse, sex-trade,  and military-industrial-
complexes.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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