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 %MOTIVATING GUIDING BEHAVIOR CHANGES MODIFICATIONS 080702
%TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING BULLIES LIFE STYLES ALIENS 080702
%ALIENATIVE BEHAVIORS GRACIOUS RECONCILIATION EVILS 080702

Differing  people seek to guide/motivate other's behaviors
in at least the following two contrasting ways:

Used-by-True-Lovers         Used-by-Domineering-Bullies

Suggestions                 Demands
Role-Modeling               Commands
Examples                    Laws
Virtues-Described           Prescriptions
Vices-Described             Proscriptions
Stories                     Taboos
Myths                       Excommunications
Parables                    Rejections
Literature                  Exclusivity
Poetry                      Prisons
Songs                       Punishments
Music                       Torture
Dialogue                    Threats
Listening                   Attacks
Empathy                     Segregation
Sympathy                    Collusive Games of MSD
Presence                    Banishments
Reconciliation              Alienation
Hospitality                 Hostility
Generosity                  Takings
Kindness                    Deprivations
Liberations                 Enslavement
Kindness                    Abuse
Facilitations               Controls
Affirmations                Negations
Welcomes                    Violence
Intimacies                  Offenses
Friendships                 Defenses

While  there  are  no  guarantees  of  outcomes  ---   the
following  below on left and right ---  are likely  to  be
outcomes of behaviors on the left and right above:

Integrations                Dis-Integrations
Integrities                 Corruptions
Informed-Behaviors          Mis-Informed-Behaviors
Healings                    Sickness
Mistakes-Avoided            Repeated-Mistakes
Tragedies-Avoided           Frequent-Tragedies

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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