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   %DESCRIBE ACCURATELY DIFFERENCES BETWEEN CONTROL 080604
%DOMINEERING DOMINATION BULLIES IMAGINARY REALITIES 080604
  %REFLEXIVE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS PERSONAL TRUTHS 080604
%TRUE LOVERS SEEING THROUGH OPAQUE PRETENSIONS LOVE 080604
   %DOMINATION SYSTEMS CONCENTRATIONS WEALTH POWERS 080604
%TABOO FANTASIES CREATIVE DREAMS IMAGINATION UNIONS 080604

It  is not always easy/simple to distinguish  between  the
control/domination  of  imaginary-realities  and of  real-
realities ---  because it is  not  always  easy/simple  to
distinguish between:   real-realities  and our own dreams,
visions, day-dreams and fantasies in the diverse realms of
our: objective, subjective, reflexive, personal, intimate,
and sexual relationships.  The  latter realities exist  in
ways which  depend  greatly  upon our perception-processes
and  upon  what  we  bring  to  our  perception-processes.
Different people perceive different realities ---  when we
are in the presence of one reflexive reality.

The  above  ambiguities  often  frustrate the  efforts  of
Domineering-Bullies  to be in control of all that happens;
because  most  of  our:   dreams,   visions,   day-dreams,
fantasies,  desires,  hopes,  expectations,  achievements,
successes, pleasures, etc.  --- are NOT controllable kinds
of realities.   Most  reflexive  realities  are simply NOT
controllable!  Many Domineering-Bullies fail to  recognize
and  acknowledge that most reflexive realities are  simply
NOT controllable!  Modesty about their own limited  powers
is    rarely    demonstrated    by    Domineering-Bullies.
Domineering-Bullies are  ALL  likely to strive tenaciously
to   win  their  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception;
even  though they are not clear how to recognize when they
have won such a game!

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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