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  %OVERALL NET COSTS DOMINEERING BULLIES ALIENATIVE 080603
 %BEHAVIORS WINNERS LOSERS PERVASIVE DISINTEGRATIVE 080603
 %EFFECTS AFFECTIVE RESPONSES HIDDEN FEARS RESENTED 080603
%ANGER REVENGE CONFUSION IGNORANCE BIASES PREJUDICE 080603
%MISUNDERSTANDING ALIENATION ARROGANCE VIOLENCE GOD 080603
 %ANGER OMNIPOTENT OMNISCIENCE ABSOLUTE TRUTH KNOWN 080603
%BEST SUPERIOR MORTALS SELF RIGHTEOUS INDIGNATION I 080603

The Overall-Net-Costs  of Domineering-Bullies'-Alienative-
Behaviors  ---   are determined LESS by Who-Wins  and Who-
Loses; than by the  EXTENT of the FOLLOWING-PERVASIVE-DIS-
INTEGRATIVE-EFFECTS  of Domineering-Bullies'  Efforts  ---
As-Seen from the Overall-Global-Perspective  of perceiving
Space-Ship-Earth  ---   within the context  of  the  whole
expanding cosmos:

The DISINTEGRATIVE-EFFECTS include:

 1.  Confusion,
 2.  Ignorance,
 3.  Biases,
 4.  Prejudices,
 5.  Misunderstandings,
 6.  Alienations,
 7.  Arrogance,
 8,  Violence,
 9.  Coercion,
10.  Hubris,
11.  Terrorism,
12.  Wars,
13.  Self-Righteousness,
14.  Revenge.

Compared  to  the Overall-Net-Costs of the  above  Tragic-
Effects; Who-Wins and Who-Loses ---  makes little Overall-
Net-Difference.   We need  to focus our own attention upon
the Overall-Net-Costs of the above Tragic-Effects.

It  is  difficult to enjoy an unbiased assessment  of  the
Overall-Net-Costs  of the above Tragic-Effects  ---because
Domineering-Bullies perceive that it is to their advantage
to generate confusion about the Overall-Net-Costs.

This  makes  it  all  the  more  important  to  work  very
intentionally   to   avoid  getting  dragged  into   being
preoccupied  with  Who-Has-Won,   Who-Has-Lost;    Who-is-
Winning, Who-is-Losing; Who-will-Win, Who-will-Lose; etc.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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