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%RECOGNIZE ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE KEY DIFFERENCES ACT 080505
   %TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING BULLIES CLEARLY DISAVOW 080505
%LET GO COMPULSIVE PREOCCUPATIONS FIXED ETERNAL GOD 080505
%IDEAL WILL IDEALS VIRTUES GOALS PRINCIPLES VIRTUES 080505
%CONTEXTS BEING GRACIOUSLY TOGETHER SHALOM MANY WAY 080505
%WAYS PATHS NEIGHBORHOODS GOD'S TINY SPACE SHIP ONE 080505
%PLANETARY SYSTEM SUN MANY GALAXIES CLUSTERS COSMOS 080505

We  need  to recognize the Key-Differences  between  True-
Lovers and Domineering-Bullies:

 1.  True-Lovers  Clearly-Disavow  the  Use/Abuse  of  all
Well-Known-Alienative-Tools In-The-Service-of any: Ideals,
Virtues, Goals, Principles, etc.

 2.  Domineering-Bullies  Regularly Use/Abuse  MOST  Well-
Known-Alienative-Tools  While-Serving  Their-Unilaterally-
Chosen and Exclusive: Virtues, Goals, Principles, etc.

 3.  True-Lovers  Live-Together in the  Many-Gracious-Ways
of Shalom --- Building/Maintaining Integrative-Sanctuaries
where ALL can enjoy Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about  their
own  Authentic-Experiences of Being-Safely-Aware  of  what
each  other  considers Most-Important to their  own  being
Safe-and-Secure in transcending their own vulnerabilities.

 4.  Domineering-Bullies Fight-Together in the Destruction
of Shalom --- Attacking/Destroying Integrative-Sanctuaries
of  True-Lovers  of Open-and-Honest-Dialogues about  their
own  Authentic-Experiences  of Being-Safely-Aware of  what
each other  considers Most-Important to  their  own  being
Safe-and-Secure in transcending their own vulnerabilities.

 5.  True-Lovers  focus upon  cooperation,   collaboration,
authenticity,  clarity, transparency,  honesty,  dialogue,
listening, mutuality, and balance as KEY-VIRTUES which are
protections  against RISKY-VIRTUES like:  greed,  loyalty,
tenacity, traditions, enthusiasm, patriotism, nationalism,
independence, freedom, control, and more of the same.

 6.  Domineering-Bullies focus exclusively upon: controls,
attacks,   winning,   violence,   unilateral-preparations,
demands, laws,  commands,  strength,  powers,  coalitions,
forces, forts, fortresses, defenses,  invulnerability, and
minimizing their own risks and costs --- in being superior
and best at what they unilaterally choose to be and do.

 7.  True-Lovers focus upon integrations and integrities.

 8.  Domineering-Bullies   undermine   integrations    and
integrities  in  many  concealed  ways ---  while  playing
Collusive-Games  of Mutual-Self-Deception where there  are
no True-Winners who Truly-Fulfill-their-Own-Intentions.

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