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   %DISCERN HOW FEASIBLE FOR TRUE LOVERS BEING OPEN 080505
%HONEST INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS SAFELY VULNERABLE ID 080505
%SHARING RISKY TRUTHS ABOUT SELF OTHER COLLUSIVE IT 080505
   %GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION IGNORANCE PREJUDICE 080505

How  feasible it is for True-Lovers to be open and  honest
about  the  natures of their  intimate  relationships  ---
depends   upon   how   free  their  communities   are   of
Domineering-Bullies.

In  communities and culture which are the victims of  many
Domineering-Bullies  it is not prudent for True-Lovers  to
be  open  and honest about the nature  of  their  intimate
relationships;   for  open and honest discussions  of  the
natures  of  their  intimate relationships  would  present
great threats to the Pretentious-Integrity of Domineering-
Bullies.

It  is  not  a  simple  thing  for  True-Lovers  to   show
leadership  in helping a community make a safe  transition
away from being dominated by Domineering-Bullies.    Going
to  fast will create chaos.    Going to slow will lead  to
falling  deeper  into  being  dominated  by   Domineering-
Bullies.

It  is  one thing to lay firm theoretical foundations  for
such  a  safe  transition ---  by  clarifying  the  inter-
relationships    among    risky-virtues,     safe-virtues,
complementary-virtues, clusters-of-mutually-complementary-
virtues, vices and vices-seen-as-virtues.

It  is  a  very  difficult thing to build  risky  intimate
relationships upon such a firm theoretical foundation; for
such  risky  intimate relationships will be vulnerable  to
the  destructive efforts of Domineering-Bullies  who  must
inhibit  True-Lovers-Intimacies; in order to advance their
programs of Concentrating-Powers-and-Wealth Without-Limit.

Of  course  Domineering-Bullies will be corrupted  to  the
extent  that they are successful in  Concentration-Wealth-
and-Powers  Without-Limit.   Power-Corrupts.    Unlimited-
Power-Corrupts Without-Limits.   There is no such thing as
Good-Unlimited-Power --- for it cannot survive corruption
for any significant duration.  Good people who are working
on  concentrating Wealth-and-Power are not Good  for  very
long; and are usually unaware of that fact.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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