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  %REASONABLE APPROPRIATE WONDER MEDITATION PRAYERS 080413

It  is reasonable and appropriate to wonder how Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception:

 1.  Begin,
 2.  Are-Initiated,
 3.  Get-Started,
 4.  Evolve,
 5.  Are-Modified,
 6.  Are-Tightened,
 7.  Are-Made-More-Exclusive,
 8.  Otherwise-Change?

According to the Always-Tacit Rules-of-Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception  ---  all of the above questions are
Improper-Questions;   TABOO,   not to be  Acknowledged-or-
Talked-About.    True-Lovers  can still wonder  about  the
Above-Questions ---  during times of Prayer and times  of
Meditation.

It  seems unlikely that True-Lovers would be motivated  to
take the Primary-Initiatives to:

 1.  Begin,
 2.  Initiate,
 3.  Start,
 4.  Evolve into Deepening-Levels,
 5.  Modify into More-Violent-Levels,
 6.  Tighten into more Alienative-Levels,
 7.  Become-More-Exclusive Colluders,
 8.  Otherwise Become-More-Dominant -- in Collusive Games.

It  seems  More-Likely  that  True-Lovers  would  work  to
REVERSE-the-PROCESSES  whereby  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
Self-Deception are:

 1.  Begun, Initiated, Started;
 2.  Evolved, Deepened, Enforced, Progressed;
 3.  Made-More Alienative-Exclusive-Permanent-Profitable;
 4.  More Hidden, Tacit, Hidden, Masked, Honorable, Nice;
 5.  More Concentrated, Irreversible, Effective, Good;
 6.  More-Dominant, Violent, Destructive, Disintegrative.

REVERSING-the-PROCESS is likely to involve the following:

 1.  Affirming-and-Demonstrating  Essential-Virtues  which
Domineering-Bullies  have the most difficulty in violating
because Essential-Virtues  Stand-on-their-own-Merits  most
securely.

 2.  Affirming-and-Clarifying  how Mutually-Complementary-
Virtues  can  be  combined with Insecure-Virtues  to  form
Essential-Clusters-of-Virtues which are Robust-as-Clusters
--- which can as Essential-Clusters-of-Virtues --- in Non-
Violent  and Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom RESIST the efforts of
Domineering-Bullies  to Pervert-and-Abuse those  Insecure-
Virtues  which  cannot  Stand-on-their-Own  as  Essential-
Virtues.

 3.  True-Lovers-are-Likely to Do the above in many Tacit,
Implicit  and  Subtle   ways of Being-Together ---  in the
Mutually-Complementary-Ways-of-Shalom ---   at  each stage
that Domineering-Bullies are Augmenting-Alienation ---  by
Deepening-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.  True-
Lovers     Reverse-the-Processes    of     Alienation-and-
Disintegration.

 4.  True-Lovers  are  not-likely  to FOCUS-ALL  of  their
efforts upon MAJOR-BATTLES,  MAJOR-THREATS,  FEW-ULTIMATE-
CONCERNS,    FEW-ABSOLUTE-TRUTHS,     ULTIMATE-UNILATERAl-
ACTIONS, ABSOLUTE POWERS, OMNIPOTENCE, OMNISCIENCE,  etc.

 5.  While Domineering-Bullies are often OVERT, BRUTAL and
VIOLENT; True-Lovers Are-Effective by being subtle, tacit,
and  indirect  ---  in  ways which will  NOT-Heighten  the
Concerns-and-Defenses of Domineering-Bullies.

 6.  True-Lovers are effective through careful discernment
about  how  to Graciously-Reverse the Little-Steps at each
Little-Step  which    augments:    The-Domination-Systems,
Violence, Coercion,        Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
Deception,   Alienation,  Defensiveness,   Distractions,
Business,   Un-Just-Concentrations-of-Wealth,    Un-Just-
Concentrations-of-Power, etc.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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