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%IMPORTANT CHARACTERISTIC HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATION 080410
  %MUTUALLY ENJOYED TRUE LOVERS BEING TOGETHER WAYS 080410
%GRACIOUS SHALOM RISKS MANAGE BALANCED TRUE VIRTUES 080410

The    following   numbered   texts   POINT-TO   important
characteristics  of  Healthy-Intimate-Relationships  which
are Mutually-Enjoyed by  True-Lovers Being-Together within
the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom:

 1.  Knowing-Reliably about the risks associated with each
kind of Intimate-Relationship --- and how to Manage-Those-
Risks in Balanced-Ways with Gracious-Mutual:  Joy,  Humor,
Generosity,   Consideration,   Sensitivity,   Empathy  and
Sympathy.   Included are the RISKS OF:

(a)  Domination and Being-in-Control of Power/Wealth;
(b)  Being Passive, Submissive, Resigned, Indifferent;
(c)  Alienation, Exclusivity, Rejection, Denial,
(d)  Excommunication, Banishment, Isolation, Being-Alone,
(e)  Sexuality, Pregnancy, Diseases, Including-Addictions,
(f)  Ignorance, Confusion, Prejudice, Certainty, Pride;
(g)  Unilateral-Success and Invulnerability,
(h)  Equating Security with Invulnerability,
(i)  Relying on threats, attacks, violence, etc.

 2.  Knowing-Reliably  how  and why  the  following  words
point to essential aspects of True-Virtues within Healthy-
Intimate-Relationships:

(a)  Cooperation, and Collaboration,
(b)  Generosity and Hospitality,
(c)  Integrations, Integrities, and Authenticity,
(d)  Sensitivity, Empathy and Sympathy,
(e)  Tolerance, Balance, and Flexibility,
(f)  Imagination, Envisioning, Dreaming and Creativity,
(g)  Exploration and Evaluations of Experiences,
(h)  Recognizing, Acknowledging & Learning from Mistakes,
(i)  Tracing Tragedies back to Simplistic-Idealism, etc.

     The above are IN-CONTRAST-TO Vices and False-Virtues!

 3.  Knowing-Reliably how and why  the above  point to the
futility  of  Unilaterally-Trying  to Avoid-or-Manage  the
risk which are entailed in Healthy-Humane-Relationships of
all kinds.

 4.  Knowing-Reliably  the Risks which are present  within
each kind of Un-Healthy-Relationship and  how to Cooperate
in Balanced ways to Mitigate-Those-Risks and Mitigate-the-
Alienation which  flows  from  Unknowingly-Stumbling  Into
such Un-Healthy-Relationships.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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