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 %RECOGNIZE ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE RESPOND GRACIOUSLY 080312

Alienative-Behaviors  Augment-Alienation Between-and-Among
both  Healthy-and-Unhealthy-People.

                        In-Contrast:

NON-Inherently-Alienative-Behaviors may Augment-Alienation
Between-and-Among Mentally-Ill-People-&-Dominant-Bullies.

                        In-Contrast:

It-is-Normal   for  Normal-People to become Alienated-from
People who  engage in  Inherently-Alienative-Behaviors ---
because   Inherently-Alienative-Behaviors   Undermine-the-
Essential-Foundations      for      Personal-and-Communal-
Integrations-and-Integrities.

It-is-Normal  for  Normal-People to become  Suspicious-of-
and-Doubt-the-Integrity   of   People-who-Often-Engage-in-
Alienative-Behaviors.     Such  Suspicions-and-Doubts  are
both Prudent-and-Proper  ---  for such   Alienative-People
do in fact LACK both Personal-and-Communal-Integrity.   It
is Dishonest-and-Disintegrative to pretend otherwise.

Our-Dilemma  is  how  to Respond to the  Alienation  which
flows naturally  from  the Inherently-Alienative-Behaviors
of Alienative-People.

We    are    DOOMED    to    both    Personal-and-Communal
Disintegrations -----  if  our  responses  to  Alienative-
Behaviors are themselves More-Alienative-Behaviors.

The only way to avoid being thus DOOMED to both  Personal-
and-Communal  Disintegrations ---  is  to do that which is
UNUSUAL and MIRACULOUS; to WORK-THOUGH FULLY/INTENTIONALLY
to MITIGATE Alienative-Behaviors by:

 1.  Letting-Go of Preoccupations with Alienative-Actions.

 2.  Focusing-Upon Affirmative-Reconciling-Actions.

 3.  Affirming-and-Demonstrating Reconciling-Actions.

 4.  Being Graciously-Intolerant of Alienative-Actions.

 5.  Being-Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Many-Ways.

 6.  Being Generous-and-Hospitable in Unpretentious-Ways.

 7.  Engaging in    Training-to-RESIST-Non-Violently.

 8.  RESISTING  Violence in Non-Violent-Reconciling-Ways.

 9.  Letting-Go of the Myths-of-Redemptive-Violence.

10.  Letting-Go of the Myths-of-Redemptive-Controls.

11.  Letting-Go of ALL Myths-of-Redemptive-Alienative-Acts

12.  Letting-Go of ALL Myths-of-Redemptive-Invulnerability

13.  Letting-Go of ALL Myths-of-Redemptive-Unilateral-Acts

13.  Doing Systems-Analysis of the Roots of Alienation.

14.  Analyzing of the the-Net-Costs-of-Knowing WHO is EVIL

15.  Analyzing of the the-Net-Costs-of-Knowing WHO is GOOD

16.  Analyzing the Net-Costs of Labeling  WHOEVER  is EVIL

17.  Analyzing the Net-Costs of Labeling  WHOEVER  is GOOD

Actions-which-Lack-Integrity; by People-and/or-Communities
that  Lack-Integrity ---  Cannot-Reasonably be expected to
Generate-Integrity-or-Redemption.

Thus,  it is reasonable to WORK-THOUGH FULLY/INTENTIONALLY
to MITIGATE Alienative-Behaviors by engaging in the  above
seventeen  kinds  of Gracious-Behaviors which  affirm  and
demonstrate both Personal-and-Communal-Integrity.

See a related essay following right after this essay.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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