This is http://www.essayz.com/b0803030.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %DIFFERENT DNA INHERENT WITHIN PEOPLE RELATIONSHIPS 080303 %FAMILIES TRIBES VILLAGES COMMUNITIES PATHS LIFE ID 080303 %ATTITUDES ASSUMPTIONS TRADITIONS CURVES CROSSINGS 080303 %INTERSECTIONS INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITY AUTHENTICITY 080303 %EXCLUSIVE SINGLE ISOLATED PEOPLE ALIENATED RIGHTS 080303 %SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS ARROGANCE UNILATERAL INITIATIVE 080303 Different-People begin life with different DNA and different Families-of-Origin --- and so their Paths-of- Life start in Different-Places. They meet different people where their Paths-of-Life happen to cross and so they enter into Different-Significant-Relationships which send them on yet Different-Paths --- due to the Different- Combinations many of Different-Past-Experiences and Perspectives. Relationships evolve in different ways which depend upon what the Different-Participants bring into their relationships --- within the contexts of different micro-communities and macro-communities. It is Misleading to think of ourselves as able to be on one unique path of life --- headed to one unique destination at the other end of that --- one unique path of life. The concept of there being only one unique correct path of life is an inherently misleading concept - -- which leads many people to tragic conclusions of lives. Different lives do involve similar elements of healthy and unhealthy living. Different people can learn about those similar elements of healthy and unhealthy living --- through open and honest dialogue about their different experiences in cooperative ventures and relationships. It is helpful to learn from others what clusters of virtues they have recognized as most helpful to them; and what clusters of vices have been most inhibiting, alienative, and destructive. The spectrums of possibilities are many; but not all rainbows are just alike and none of us can get to, have, hold and control any of all the rainbows. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================