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 %TRUE LOVERS UNDERSTAND EXPOSE DOMINEERING BULLIES 080302

True-Lovers  are  empowered  to  mitigate  the  alienative
behaviors of  Domineering-Bullies  by  understanding  that
Domineering-Bullies:

 1.  Avoid-Affirmations-Of   Clusters-of-True-Virtues  ---
for  such  affirmations expose the lack of  integrity  and
authenticity in Domineering-Bullies.

 2.  Avoid-Dealing-Directly-With  True-Lovers  for   True-
Lovers  can expose the lack of integrity and  authenticity
in Domineering-Bullies.

 3.  Avoid-Being-Close-To True-Lovers'  Demonstrations  of
Clusters-of-True-Virtues  ---   for  such  closeness  will
expose   the  lack  of  integrity  and   authenticity   in
Domineering-Bullies.

 4.  Insist-Upon-Focusing-Only upon:  Contests, Conflicts,
Wars,   Races, Competitions, Fights,   Rivalries,  Strife,
Dichotomies,   Polarizations,  Yes/No-Questions,   Yes/No-
Answers  ---  for only such realities are compatible  with
the Compulsive-Preoccupations of Domineering-Bullies.

 5.  Are  Indifferent-and-Insensitive To-The-Net-Costs  to
the  Crew-of-Space-Ship-Earth  of all of the  efforts  of
Domineering-Bullies    Trying-To-Destroy Each-Other.

 6.  Are   Preoccupied  with   Playing-Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception  which Nobody-Can-Win because:   (a)
The Games-are-NOT-Being-Played,     (b)  The rules must be
kept  secret  and/or  confused,   (c)    All-Players  will
together Destroy whoever drops out --- in order to conceal
the continuing game of those who remain in the game.

 7.  Are addicted  to the MYTHS-OF-REDEMPTIVE:   Violence,
Controls,    Punishments,   Attacks,   Wars,    Dictators,
Unilateral-Salvation, and Concentrations-of-Wealth/Powers.

 8.  Base  their Hope in  Unilaterally-Achieving  Eternal-
Invulnerability   through  the  Concentrations-of-Superior
Powers-and-Technologies which deny the reality of Dilemmas
which  Technologies-and-Technocrats  cannot "solve"  -----
because  Dilemmas are Not-Technical-Problems by virtue  of
Dilemmas   being   about   Ideological-Conflicts   between
UNEXAMINED/ISOLATED:  Ideals,  Values,  Virtues,  Visions,
Dreams, Hopes, Expectations, etc.

 9.  Have  ULTIMATE-CONCERNS  which  are  ANTITHETICAL-TO:
True-Cooperation,   True-Collaboration,   Open-and-Honest-
Dialogue,   True-Intimacies,    True-Conflict-Resolutions,
Hospitality, Reconciliations, True-Peacemaking, and Being-
Truly-Together-in-Shalom's-Many-Complementary-Ways.

10.  In having the above ULTIMATE-CONCERNS are engaged  in
ULTIMATELY-ALIENATIVE kinds of IDOLATRY.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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