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%SEDUCING LOYAL SUPPORTERS DOMINATION SYSTEMS GAMES 071202
%MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION PLAYING FOR HIGH STAKES EVIL 071202
  %CONCENTRATIONS WEALTH POWER ALIENATIVE BEHAVIORS 071202
 %TRUE LOVERS ENGAGE WITHIN HONORABLE INTIMATE GOOD 071202
%INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP FRIENDSHIP SEXUALITY HEALTHY 071202
  %GRACIOUS SHALOM MANY MUTUALLY COMPLEMENTARY WAYS 071202

    Domineering-People are sometimes inclined to Covet-an-
Exchange-of-Places with  someone  who is  in  an  Admired-
Intimate-Relationship  with another person;  Coveting-the-
Position which that someone is in ---  as if people can be
treated as Exchangeable-Parts-of-a-Machine.

Exchangeable-Parts-of-a-Machine   are  NON-REFLEXIVE-Parts
which ARE-PURELY-OBJECTIVE-THINGS --- that are NOT-CAPABLE
of   Playing-Any TRULY-REFLEXIVE-ROLE;  and much less able
to play any  Mutually-Reflexive-Role in any Multi-Personal
Intimate-Relationship.

Participants in Honorable-Intimate-Relationships which are
Worthy-of-Admiration   ---   are   in  fact    Engaged-in-
Reflexive-Roles which include being Self-Reflexive;  i.e.,
involve  Reflecting-Upon-Self-In-Relationships  with   the
other    participants    in   their    Honorable-Intimate-
Relationships; i.e.,  with the Primary-Intimate-Others and
those person's Closest-Intimate-Others. Intimacies are not
purely local realities that exist in isolation!

In  addition to the above  complexities/complications  ---
Domineering-People   will  Normally-be-Terrified  by   the
Risks-of-Vulnerability  which are inherent  in  Honorable-
Truly-Intimate-Relationships.    Those risks are TABOO  to
truly loyal  Domineering-People  who are In-The-Service-Of
The-Domination-System in its many manifestations.

The  Hidden-Rules  of  the  Mandatory-Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception within  all  manifestations  of The-
Domination-System  --- DEMAND-THAT  loyal-supporters  NOT-
TAKE-RISKS  in  any Honorable-Truly-Intimate-Relationship!
Therein  they  would be bound to be  tricked/seduced  into
being traitors!

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Not-Even-Truly-Reflexive-People   can  Truly-Function   as
Interchangeable-Actors  in  Truly-Reflexive-Relationships;
because:

 1.  They  do  not  have the identical  memories  of  past
Reflexive-Activities with  each  other  and/or  with other
Intimate-Associates.

 2.  They  do  not have Identical-Vocabularies  of  Words,
Gestures, Facial-Expressions, Body-Language, Affectionate-
Touching, etc.

 3.  They  do not have Identical-Intuitions about what  is
on each-other's-minds and/or in each other's-hearts.

 4.  They  do  not  know what  each  other's  desires  and
pleasures  are;  nor what each other's fears and anxieties
are.

     Humane-People-In-LOVE are not Interchangeable-Parts.

     Humane-People-In-Integrity are Not-In-Conformity.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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