This is http://www.essayz.com/b0711162.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %EGOCENTRIC DOMINEERING PEOPLE APPROACH OTHERS GOD 071116 %JUDGEMENTAL CRITICALLY CORRECTIVELY RECOGNIZE IT 071116 %DECIDER JUDGE CENTER COSMOS BIG BANG BOMB WARRIORS 071116 To a significant extent Domineering-People are Ego-Centric in their approaches to: Other-People, Complementary- Ideals, Complementary-Values, Complementary-Perspectives, etc. They do not view themselves within Broader-Contexts, they view Broader-Contexts in terms of themselves. Their Broader-Contexts are to be controlled by themselves --- to correct the defects which they recognize exist within their broader-contexts. They themselves are the Decider. They themselves are the Judge. They themselves are the Center of their Cosmos. Domineering People cannot perceive themselves are One-Part of a Much-Larger-Whole within which they can play a meaningful/significant part Only-Through: cooperation, balance, mutuality, colaboration, dialogue, listening, integration, and Being-Together in the Many-Complementary- Ways-of-Shalom --- within which they can be honestly fulfilled. However, Domineering-People-Feel-Compulsively that they must be in charge of the Much-Larger-Whole --- to be safe, secure and invulnerable. They have not experienced the it is possible to be safe, secure and vulnerable in intimate relationships within Shalom's-Many-Mutually- Complementary-Ways of any Sanctuary-built-and-open-for- ALL. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================