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%LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TRUE LOVERS WITHOUT 071116
%DOMINATION INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES CONTROLS GREED 071116
 %DOMINEERING ADDICTS CODEPENDENT SUPPORTERS SHALOM 071116
%ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATION BANISHMENT 071116

What kinds of Long-Term-relationships can evolve between a
True-Lover and a Domineering-Person?

A  long-term-relationship  between  a  True-Lover  and   a
Domineering-Person cannot evolve unless either one of them
or  both  of  them change to make possible some  forms  of
accommodation.

 1.  The  Domineering-Person   moderating   their  initial
compulsive preoccupation with:  Control, Domination, Greed,
Winning,  Concentrating-Power, Concentrating-Wealth,  etc.
and  being willing to engage in cooperative,  honest,  and
intimate dialogue.

 2.  The True-Lover moderating their initial healthy focus
upon: integrations, integrities, authenticity,  and Being-
Together  in the Many-WAys-of-Shalom  and becoming willing
to  submit  to  the demands/commands of  the  Domineering-
Person without integrity; e.g., as a Codependent-Supporter
of an Addict or a totally submissive slave.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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