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%ESSENTIAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN TRUE LOVERS GRACIOUS 071006
 %RECONCILIATIONS HOSPITALITY GENEROSITY INTIMACIES 071006
%CONFLICTS VIOLATIONS VIOLENCE CONTROLS COMMANDMENT 071006

The   Essential-Difference   between    True-Lovers    and
Domineering-People (and their behaviors/relationships) IS-
NOT to be found in any  ONE-Exclusive-Realm  of  any kind:
Objective,    Subjective,   Reflexive,   Moral,   Ethical,
Political, Religious,  Spiritual,  Technical,  Scientific,
Philosophical, Formal, Informal,  etc. --- BECAUSE:

 1.  The  Essential-Differences  between  True-Lovers  and
Domineering-People    ARE-MULTIPLE,     NOT-ONE    Single-
Difference.

 2.  The  Essential-Differences  between  True-Lovers  and
Domineering-People pertain to the multitude of differences
between  their   differing  Kinds-of-Relationships   which
include: Objective, Subjective, Reflexive, Moral, Ethical,
etc.  RELATIONSHIPS  which demonstrate in various ways the
Virtues/Vices of:

Humility/Arrogance,
Kindness/Meanness,
Generosity/Greed,
Sympathy/Indifferences,
Empathy/Meanness,
Integrity/Destruction,
Authenticity/Pretentiousness,
Hospitality/Excommunications,
Reconciliations/Exclusivity,
Civility/Contentiousness,
Affirmations/Negations, etc.

 3.  The  Essential-Difference  between  True-Lovers   and
Domineering-People  cannot  be helpfully MITIGATED through
the UNILATERAL-USES of: Blame, Shame,  Guilt, Projections,
Interjections, Preaching, Lecturing, Broadcasting, Hubris,
Greed, Controls, Commands, Demands, Plans,  Proscriptions,
Prescriptions, Taboos, etc.

 4.  The  Essential-Differences  between  True-Lovers  and
Domineering-People can  be  found only  through  Open-and-
Honest-Dialogue   between/among   them   within  Reliable-
Sanctuaries built and maintained by them  as  Cooperative-
Citizens  of God's-Space-Ship-Earth as it  travels through
God's-Immense-Cosmos  which  for  the  most  part  is  not
friendly  to  Humane-Life-Forms due to  the  extremes  of:
Heat/   Cold,   Pressures/Vacuums,    Turbulence/Rigidity,
Chaos/Chance  and  other realities which are not  kind  to
Gentle-Relations.

 5.  The  Essential-Differences  between  True-Lovers  and
Domineering-People  can  be  MITIGATED  only  by  Getting-
Together and Being-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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