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Domineering-People are not dedicated to developing healthy
Personal-Relationships   which   entail    Open-and-Honest
intimacy;   so they drift out of close-touch with  healthy
people.  While they are out-of-touch they substitute their
own   Fantasy-Realities   in  place  of   Real-Interactive
Reflexive-Intimate-Relationships.    Within  their  limits
such  Fantasy-Realities are easy to  Dominate-and-Control;
but  the  longer people live within them  --- the  less in
touch with reality --- the Domineering-People become.

When we are out of touch with reality,  it is hard for  us
to learn  from our mistakes;  and then hard to admit that
we have ever  made mistakes,  or to admit that our friends
and advisors have ever made mistakes.  We become unable to
adapt to changes in our environment;  because we Feel-and-
Then-Think  that  we are in charge of our environment  ---
Our-Fantasy-   World  which  we  can  Dominate-to-our-own-
Satisfaction.

We  and  our  neighbors are in real  trouble  when  we  as
Domineering-People  can no longer distinguish between  our
Fantasy-Reality which we Feel-and-Think that  we  Control;
and God's-Finite-Space-Ship-Earth which goes around God's-
Finite-Sun once each year far beyond any moral's control.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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