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%LOVE GOD AFFIRMATIONS CONTEXT SHALOM HEALTH HEALER 070701
 %FRAME FRAMER FRAMEWORK QUESTIONS AFFIRMATIONS SEX 070701
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%OWNED GOODS POSITIVE HOPE ASPIRATIONS EXPECTATIONS 070701

    Pictures  usually viewed within the context of a frame
which  exists  around the pictures.   In subtle  ways  the
frame leads us to see each picture in a way which enhances
our  ability  to appreciate and enjoy what is  within  the
picture itself.

    In like ways the questions we ask and the responses to
our  questions are usually viewed within the context  of a
frame   which   exists  around  our  questions   and   our
affirmations  of  our  responses to our  questions.    The
elements  of our frames around our questions and responses
include:

 1.  Virtues we affirm and/or tolerate as vices.
 2.  Vices we tolerate and/or affirm as virtues.
 3.  Negations/Denigrations we affirm and/or tolerate.
 4.  Simpletons and/or Simplistic leaders whom we follow.
 5.  True-Lovers and True-Prophets whom we follow.
 6.  Peacemakers and/or Militarists whom we follow.
 7.  Key-Words and/or Concepts that we use every day.
 8.  Addictions and Codependent-Supporters we Tolerate.
 9.  Addictions and Codependent-Supporters we Honor/Love.
10.  Mutually-Complementary Ideals, Values & Principles.

    Every  significant part/element of our lives  together
is  part of the frame for every other significant part and
element of our lives together.

    We become guilty of and the victim of IDOLATRY when we
allow any one part/element of our lives to dwarf the other
complementary  parts/elements of our lives;   whenever  we
refuse  to  honor  the  Mutually-Complementary  Parts-and-
Elements  of Essential-Paradoxical-Affirmations.   When we
label  such Parts-and-Elements as EVIL and/or  ENEMIES  we
DISINTEGRATE in Simplistic-Tragic-Ways.   Then there is no
Reverence,   Honor,  Balance,  Respect,  Mutuality in  the
Absence-of-LOVE.    God  is  then dead so far  as  we  are
concerned.

    We  ALL disintegrate and suffer whenever  we  tolerate
and/or  affirm  Contentious-Competitions  among  Mutually-
Complementary: neighbors, values,  ideals,  principles and
virtues ---  as if controls, commands, demands,  mandates,
proscriptions,   prescriptions,  dominance and  domination
were appropriate  and/or required elements of  our  Lives-
Together.

    Compulsive/Exclusive   preoccupations  with  any   few
ideals,  values,  principles, commands, demands, etc.  are
usually  destructive ---  rather than constructive in  any
way which merits honor, respect or reverence.

    Compulsive/Exclusive  preoccupations with  identifying
what few ideals,  values,  principles, commands,  demands,
etc  are MOST IMPORTANT ---  are also usually destructive;
rather  than  constructive in any way which merits  honor,
respect or reverence.

    Such  Compulsive/Exclusive preoccupations  often  form
the  basis for the justification of  Tragically-Alienative
patterns of behavior which offer No-Way-Out.

    Compulsive preoccupations with WHO is evil and WHO  is
good   almost  always  engender  alienations   and   evil-
relationships    among    those    afflicted    with   the
preoccupations.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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