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 %FOCUS MITIGATE EFFORTS RECONCILIATION FORGIVENESS 070615
%BEING TOGETHER MANY DIVERSE WAYS SHALOM HEALING IT 070615
  %KNOWING WHO MOST EVIL DEVIL GOOD SUPERIOR ALIENS 070615
  %FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS 070615
%GARDEN EDEN BABYLON MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE GREED 070615
 %PROJECTION AWAY SELF OTHER COLLUSIVE GAMES POWERS 070615

To Mitigate-Alienation,  Support  and  Focus-Attention on:

 1.  Building-Sanctuaries for Open-and-Honest-Dialogue.
 2.  Maintaining-Sanctuaries for Open-and-Honest-Dialogue.
 3.  Authentic-Hospitality as Generating-Benefits for ALL.
 4.  The Art of Intensive-Listening for Intended-Meanings.
 5.  Most Gracious-Interpretations of what was said/done.
 6.  Most-Gracious-Interpretations of Apparent-Intentions.
 7.  Interpreting-Apparent-Intentions in Generous-Ways.
 8.  Interpreting-Apparent-Intentions in Shalom's-Ways.
 9.  Mitigating  Tragically-Misleading  Fears-&-Anxieties.
10.  Affirmations;     more than upon Negations.
11.  Creative-Efforts  more than upon Destructive-Efforts.
12.  Net-Benefits to Whole-Communities   in Shalom's-Ways.
13.  Mitigating-Confusion regarding   Intentions/Meanings.
14.  Mitigating Excessive Concentrations of Wealth/Powers.
15.  Mitigating Risky-Concentrations of   Unstable-Energy.
16.  Mitigating Risky-Concentrations of   Unstable-Power.
17.  Interpreting Communications as Graciously as Possible
18.  Mitigating the use/abuse of   Impersonal-Techniques.
19.  Mitigating the use/abuse of   Unbalanced-Powers.
20.  Responding in Creative New-Ways to Old-Traditions.
21.  Demonstrating the Advantages of Creative New-Ways.
22.  Being Relaxed and At-Ease in Following New-Ways.
23.  Being Humble and Tentative in Affirming New-Truths.
24.  Confirming your understanding of other's intentions.
25.  Graciously clarifying your understanding when needed.
26.  Avoiding-negations and accentuating-affirmations.
27.  Avoiding Alienative Dichotomies-and-Polarizations.
28.  Avoiding Alienative Rank-Ordering of People.
29.  Avoiding the use of Violence-and-Coercion.
30.  Evaluating your behaviors in terms of consequences.
31.  Confirming convictions in terms of solid evidence.
32.  Looking for coherent interpretations of all evidence.
33.  Trying new ways to get new results.
34.  Not expecting new results, while stuck in old ruts.
35.  Not repeating the old, while expecting new outcomes.
36.  Not copying the ways of your enemies, to defeat them.
37.  Not imitating the ways of those you call evil people.
38.  Not doing to others what you resent them doing to you
39.  Mitigating efforts to unilaterally control others.
40.  Mitigating exclusivity as a way to control others.
41.  Mitigating the use of judgmental shame, blame & guilt
42.  Mitigating the use of threats of excommunication.
43.  Mitigating the use of threats of rejection/banishment
44.  Mitigating demonstrations of superiority over others.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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