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 %ROOTS FOUNDATIONS RELATIONSHIPS CREATIONS VISIONS 070613
 %CAUSE EFFECT CONSEQUENCES TRADITIONS RUTS REPEATS 070613
%MUTUAL AFFIRMATIONS AUTHENTIC COORDINATION DESIRES 070613
%NEGATIVE DENIGRATIONS DESTRUCTION ELIMINATION PURE 070613
 %SUPERIOR PURITY PURIFICATIONS PERFECTION IDEALISM 070613
%SIMPLISTIC SIMPLETONS TRAGEDIES CYCLES RECYCLE SIN 070613

    The kinds of relationships which people create through
their interactions ---   depend  Essentially-and-Primarily
upon their diverse honestly-shared,  mutually-affirmed and
authentically-coordinated:

    1.  Desires,
    2.  Intentions,
    3.  Visions,
    4.  Dreams,
    5.  Fantasies,
    6.  Hopes,
    7.  Expectations,
    8.  Beliefs,
    9.  Convictions and
   10.  Gifts.

    The    Gracious-Relationships   which   are    created
through/within  such Risk-Full-Interactions ---  exist  in
Clear-Contrast-To  the  Contentious-Relationships that are
Demonstrated    by   Domineering-People   who   seek    to
Unilaterally-Minimize/Mitigate their own:

    1.  Vulnerabilities,
    2.  Risks,
    3.  Costs,
    4.  Losses,
    5.  Discomfort,
    6.  Embarrassments,
    7.  Revelations,
    8.  Mistakes,
    9.  Failures and
   10.  Humiliations.

while,   of course,  maximizing each of the above for each
other person whom Self-Has-Chosen to regard  as  (A) Evil-
People,   as (B)  Enemy-People and/or as (c)   Disposable-
People who are  to  be  Used/Abused  --- in  order  to  be
Successful    as    Affirmed   by    One's-Own-Unilateral-
Definitions.

    The contrasts between the relationships pertain to the
frequencies of demonstrations of each of the following:

    1.  Alienations/Reconciliations,
    2.  Estrangements/Peacemaking
    3.  Distrust/Trust
    4.  Secrecy/Openness,
    5.  Preaching/Dialogue,
    6.  Attacks/Hospitality,
    7.  Threats/Tolerance,
    8.  Defensive-Coalitions/Gifts,
    9.  Offensive-Actions/Gracious-Presences,
   10.  Mutual-Rejections/Mutual-Acceptances,
   11.  Violence/Gentleness,
   12.  Dominance/Intimacies,
   13.  Controls/Liberations,
   14.  Coercion/Assistance,
   15.  Denigrations/Integrations.

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    Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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